Eastwood's use of :arglists for :wrong-arity linter checking is definitely 'at odds' with the way java.jdbc and some other libraries use it for clearer documentation.
I would recommend leaving :arglists as-is for java.jdbc, and wait for the next version of Eastwood to add a capability to have something like an :eastwood-arglists for functions that explicitly replace their :arglists like this. Such a capability might best belong in Eastwood itself, since it is the new tool on the block.
As an example, I was considering that if a fn/macro explicitly chose to be Eastwood-friendly in this way, it could have an :arglists and :eastwood-arglists explicitly, for those few vars that replace their :arglists. When one is using Eastwood with a library that they do not want to modify in that way, there could be some extra config file for Eastwood where one could specify these :eastwood-arglists.